Tuesday, October 7, 2014

AWE!!!!!  Our children are ready for us to brake down the stinkin money barrier and bring them home!  Please see our facebook page for our awesome "Hillesland children's Envelope" Fundraiser.  Go Go Go!!!  

Monday, September 29, 2014

Today!!!!

Happy Blessed Monday.  Happy, exciting news to come in just a little bit.  Stay tuned! 

Saturday, August 23, 2014

Happy Beautiful, Blessed Saturday morning. It's been a while since our last update so here ya go. Our 1600A is being approved and should be complete within about a week or so. It is the form needed by a U.S citizen who plans to adopt a foreign-born child. This is approved by the U.S Citizenship and Immigration Services department to adjudicate our application qualifying us as the adoptive parents. A child cannot immigrate to the U.S as an orphan until an I600 form has been approved.
We are also almost finished getting our Dossier together. Should have it all finished in the next three weeks. A Dossier is a TON of notarized paper work all about us that is put together and in our case we have 8 items in which we need six notarized copies of EVERYTHING. GEEZZZZ!!! A lot of running around, phone calls, and super duper expensive of course! The Dossier will go to Uganda to the attorney and courts, they go over everything to approve us to adopt children from their country. So guess what???? When we are I600A approved in about a week or two we can officially accept referrals from our adoption agency, meaning we will know what children will be joining our Family.    I'm sure when we see their faces and learn their stories, it will make our lesson of patience even more difficult. We will share as much as it is safe to share when we know who they are. The biggest obstacle today is funding. We will need to do this pretty quickly now so stay tuned for our next fundraiser.....We will continue to use give27.org for all fundraising. (visit that site anytime) :0) Please continue to pray for this process, for our children to be, and for our whole family.

Tuesday, July 22, 2014

Update and Funding





 You probably know that our 2 yr adoption journey has taken us to three different Countries in Africa. 
We have been involved supporting and working with different orphanages there.   We are happy to update that we are officially settled in a small town in Uganda.
We are adopting two children from a wonderful children's home that takes children that are over looked because they are a little older (past the toddler age) and have special medical needs. 
For these reasons our adoption is moving along very quickly. We need to raise funds fast so we can get our children home and healthy!!!  
We still need about $35,000.00.  I know not everyone can give much but every dollar helps even just $27.00.  
Our church set up www.give27.org so you'll have a site that makes your donation tax deductible.
We will continue to work  hard fundraising through the summer and ask that you pray for us, for our children while they wait, and for open hearts to help us bring them home. 

Please share our story and video.... Blessings, Brian Deb and our Eight Is Not Enough Crew.  Click on this link to watch our video and again, please share.



http://vimeo.com/album/125888/video/101310120

Thursday, July 3, 2014

LONG WAITED UPDATE! 

Again we apologize for the delay but the world of adoption is a daily roller coaster ride. It's a huge hurry up and then wait game. Good news and then bad news. Changes weekly and so we've waited for more certainty before filling you in.
We are officially moving forward, full speed ahead in Uganda!! I've been sobbing all morning. Some tough deep conversations of children and their unthinkable situations. Gob bless them and keep them safe. Oh how my heart wants to save them all as you can understand. I just pray and hope the Lord opens lot's and lot's of hearts through our adoptions and more precious ones can have safe homes and families. 
SO we have to fundraise like mad people!!!!!!!!!!!!! We will have a huge community garage sale on Saturday the 26th at South Middle school in Nampa ID. (not poured in concrete, but in the works so we'll update that too). We are planning an online auction, and will update you on the details of these two fundraisers and the others we are in the process of planning. We are also applying for a matching grant. 

It's crazy how God works his timing and gives us his whisper.... I had just finished a phone call with a dear friend this morning telling her I have this gut feeling that the quiet is soon to pass, it's going to get wild and crazy and we'll have to move really fast. I came down to my office, checked our adoption email and the emails came flooding in from Carol at the childrens home we are working with, our agency, and their contact and progress with the attorney in Uganda. It was crazy and emotional like nothing else...... We know God holds this whole process in his hands so the money and everything else will go as he desires and plans. Prayers would be so appreciated. We will be able to share a bit more details in the next few weeks on our children. Meanwhile we have a video to share with you next week and will update you on the fundraisers asap as well. Thank you for being in our lives and on our mission!!  Blessings~~Deb.

Sunday, May 18, 2014

Marching On!!!!!

We need your prayer, we ask for your support!
I spent three hours Friday on conference calls with the The US Depart of State Bureau of Consular Affairs, and the consulate in the DRC.  The DRC (congo) officials as some of you know stopped allowing their “already” adopted children to leave their country and come home with their new families.  They are afraid their children are being mistreated, or “re-homed”.  ( put through another adoption once here if the adoptive family decides they can’t “handle” the children)    Now because of other issues during US families visiting their children in the DRC, the DRC will scrutinize and in some cases refuse parents from the U.S. to visit their children who are waiting for their exit visas (which have been put on hold).  September 2013, they asked for one year to revamp their adoption program. They want to stop corruption in the adoption program in their country.  They want other countries adopting their children to conform to their laws and regulations (that was not always happening).   This has caused tragedies for some of the waiting children and much heart break for many waiting families, but in the grand scheme of things this is good.   If they are prepared and stick to that time line, they will start reissuing the children’s exit visas in September.
What does this mean for us?   It means going forward with our adoption in the DRC is risky but honestly no more risky than usual.  The September time line (if they stick to it) does not affect us on how we move forward.  We are just finished with our home study, we are applying for matching grants, going through fundraising ideas (any suggestions are welcome), and getting ready to create our story on video for you (coming soon).
During my (Deborah) prayer time this morning I was given a strong message saying “be ready”.  Tears again of course.
 We march forward and we “be ready”.  What does that look like at this point?  It means we fundraise like crazy!!!   We’ll need approx.  $8000.00 to sign up with our Adoption (placement) agency, and have a Dossier prepared.  The Dossier a collection of papers containing very detailed information about us.  Compiling a dossier involves gathering documents, having the documents notarized, adding various seals from our county, state, and the U.S. government, then translated into that countries language. 
Ok?  Ok. (Inhale, exhale)    So let’s do this!   If we have enough of us together, helping, we can get this part funded quickly.  God told us to “Be Ready” so let’s Be Ready.   John 14:18 “I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you.”         GO!!!!!   www.give27.thepursuit.org



Thursday, April 10, 2014

Be Careful What You Pray For!

Well where to start......So you've probably read at least a little about the issues with the DRC closing it's exit visas, not allowing adopted children to leave their country.  This was do to information true or false that there was abuse and re-homing (adoptive parents giving their adopted children, up for adoption to another family) of the Congolese children in the U.S.   This has been a very sad time for the families that are through the full adoption process and not able to bring their children home.  It's also very sad and scary for families that are still in the process of adopting from DRC not knowing if you'll get to the end and not be able to bring your children home, or get derailed in the process and have to choose a different country.  It's been a very insecure, unsettling, feeling.  (not of God)

Last night at our Bible study we were asked for an update on our adoption.  We explained the above and the worry and frustration, the heartache.  There was a lot of discussion on how God knows how this will play out.  Nothing happens with out it filtering through His hands.  How this is teaching us what true faith looks and feels like.  That I can not and do not have control of everything in my life. I told our friends, "I do have faith that His will, will be done".  I know he will lead us where he needs us.  He knows what children he is bringing into our lives and family.  He will open the right doors, and close the wrong doors.  So even though we feel like we are wondering through the desert, we hold on to Him, to His word, and we march on!  We prayed about this at the end of our group time and Brian and prayed about it again before bed.

This morning when I got to my work desk, signed on to my emails I had two emails in our hilleslandadoption@gmail.com account.  One from our Pastor saying that the tax deductible giving site was up and running so that we could start the fundraising phase.  Instant joy, followed by, fear.  The next email was from our case worker sharing an article from the U.S. Dept of State with an update that the DRC authorities of adoption where on their way to the U.S next week for 10 days.  "The visit is designed to address the Congolese authorities’ concerns regarding the welfare of children adopted from the Democratic Republic of Congo by U.S. citizen parents.  Addressing these concerns could have a significant impact on Congolese authorities’ perspectives on intercountry adoptions to the United States, and on the future of intercountry adoptions from the Democratic Republic of the Congo to the United States."  That means HOPE.  If the DRC authorities are shown that the children adopted and living in the U.S. are being raised in good, healthy environments, and are adjusting well to being in the U.S. then we have hope that they will start issuing exit visas for their children already adopted and orphans waiting for families.    Phew!  What a morning!!!   I cried and cried on and off most of today.  Just rocked by God answering our questions, calming our doubt, loving on us, being there, everything that he promises.  

So, with my head bowed, tears running down my cheeks, "OK" was my response to Him.  

I wanted to share this all with you........

We have a personal letter we will mail to anyone who would like a little more of our story.  Feel free to email us with your physical address if you would like one.  We will post it in a week or two as well.    We were going to wait to tell everyone where they can go to donate to bringing our children home after our letters where mailed out, BUT my beautiful little sister Lori didn't know that, and being excited that our giving site was up, posted it on facebook! Ha!  Well there you go again with me Having to let go of control!!  
So thankful for all of you, your time, interest, care, love, everything you offer.  We will update again next week.  Updates should be a little more often now.......
Oh, here is the giving website if you want to check it out..  http://give27.thepursuit.org/families/the-
hilleslands/
Love and Blessings,
Bri and Deb